Posted by Dr. Bob on January 25, 2005, at 21:17:08
In reply to OK, to clarify once and for all..., posted by university on January 24, 2005, at 14:28:40
> > there's stuff ... you have to deal with before you really can have a healthy fabulous LOVING relationship with a guy and Damn it you're not READY
>
> Is what, when I read it as a reply to my sincere problem, unsettling, etc. It @!#$% me off, to be honest, because to me, it read as if a total stranger was writing "YOU'RE not ready, damn it! You're confused! etc.You have a point there, sorry about that.
> her reply seemed super rude, condescending, etc.
Still, please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused.
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Thanks,
Bob
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