Posted by alexandra_k on January 23, 2005, at 18:29:21
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by University on January 23, 2005, at 15:42:59
> ANYWAY, i was a little offended by Susan's misreading of my post--at least i thought it was a mis-read (not making the "in love" and "love" distinction, then labeling me as not ready, etc. but then i lightened up and called her POST boorish (not her) and tried to make light of it all.
Ah. I am afraid the civility rules are no joke around here. I think the 'misreading' was inadvertant. She went on to say that she was talking about *her* life anyway.
I think that the point was that you really did offend her. That isn't a joke. Not to me anyway. If I hurt someone I try to understand how I hurt them to prevent a recurrance and I apologise for having hurt them (whether I understand or not). But I guess that is just me.
> so, but can we get back to the original post? or does everyone dislike me now :(
I don't dislike ya, but I have to admit I am slightly wary... Someone else may want to babble with you...
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