Posted by lucielu2 on August 16, 2011, at 16:46:29
In reply to The unraveling of a long term relationship, posted by annierose on August 16, 2011, at 16:01:40
Annierose, I wonder if there isn't quite a bit of countertransference going on here. I remember reading somewhere that a T may feel challenged when a client, especially a long-term one, holds their feet to the fire for some infraction - like, how about all the right things I've done over the years? Maybe this is the suck-it-up attitude you sense?
In which case, she is not listening to you because she is too busy being defensive.
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