Posted by Wittgensteinz on October 11, 2008, at 18:08:03
In reply to I give up geeze, posted by lemonaide on October 11, 2008, at 14:34:49
I'm sorry to say it but I feel a bit defeated/disappointed by your response.
It's such a pity you feel this way given what people have posted. I still don't think any of us have been lacking in support.
Maybe my use of the word 'sensationalism' was misplaced. I wasn't accusing you of anything and it wasn't said to detract from the seriousness of what happened with T1 - that absolutely wasn't my intention and should be clear from my earlier posts in reply to your disclosure thread.
What I do see here is that when someone says something that doesn't sit comfortably with you, you leave the community (which of course is your choice) - it seems a strong reaction - that suddenly this place is perceived as unsafe, rather than just seeing that someone has posted something that to you seems unreasonable and then allowing for adult discussion about why it makes you feel that way and resolving it and moving forward. I think this fits in well with what Annierose had to say about relationships - one thing doesn't make it unethical - nor does it make it all-good/all-bad.
Witti
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