Posted by lemonaide on October 11, 2008, at 14:34:49
In reply to I don't think it is as you see it » lemonaide, posted by Wittgensteinz on October 11, 2008, at 11:22:30
If anyone wants to keep in touch I will have my babblemail on, but I can't read unsupportive posts to me when I need support the most right now.
Being supportive is not telling me I am being sensationalizing or talking out of context. OMG, I still can't get my mind that I even have to defend this. I certainly wouldn't tell a friend this who was venting and looking for support. I am not in a court of law where I need my posts picked at with a fine toothed comb. I was needing support.
I am sure my T will be needing lawyers, so I guess you could volunteer since you seem to have his best interest in mind. If you feel you must defend my T and his actions, while going through my post with a fine tooth comb, trying to point out what I am doing wrong, it won't feel very supportive to me right now. What about my feelings? Do they count in any of this?
I was told I was attaching Daisy's T, ATTACKING. I never said anyone was attacking me. Don't you think that word is a tad overstated?
But the comments did hurt my feelings, made me feel judged, and made me want to run away, the comments didn't seem supportive to me. Why do I even keep trying to stay here???? I was almost thinking wow, babble was getting back to the wonderful place it used to be, so supportive. But now I remember why so many feel unsafe here, and why so many have left.
Now I don't feel safe here, even with this most difficult week coming up for me. I was so hoping I could use this place for support, but I can't risk getting judgmental posts made to me, that just tears me down and makes me sorry for ever posting in the first place. Please don't waste your time responding to me here, because I will not be back to read them. Most of the posts have been wonderful, I thank those who are supporting me, and not defending my old T.
So this sensationalizing and posting out of context poster is gone now. I am sorry you couldn't see why I feel your posts were not supportive to me, I am sure others see it.
poster:lemonaide
thread:856899
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