Posted by Suedehead on October 7, 2008, at 18:20:19
In reply to Re: Mutual attraction » Suedehead, posted by seldomseen on October 6, 2008, at 20:16:03
Hi Seldom,
Yeah, your situation sounds much like mine, so I can imagine how tough it was to deal with. Mine too went so far as to say that he had "erotic desire" for me. He also told me something similar to what yours told you about letting desire just *be*. I know that in order for all this to be really beneficial, I need to talk to him about it some more, but it's hard. I mean, I've told him that I am glad that he admitted his attraction, which is true...but I'm having trouble communicating to him that I'm also confused and scared and any number of other not so positive things...
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