Posted by antigua3 on October 7, 2008, at 7:52:32
In reply to Mutual attraction, posted by Suedehead on October 6, 2008, at 18:53:35
Well, while there are many schools of thought on the "correctness" of this, all I can add is that IMO it is better that he admitted it than ignored it. Ignoring the obvious (at least from one person's perspective) can be equally damaging because it makes one doubt themselves. Now you know it's there, you didn't imagine it, etc., and now you can work with it. But if there's any sense of him stepping over a boundary that you don't feel comfortable with then you actually need to be the stronger one and take care of yourself.
best of luck,
antigua
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