Posted by sassyfrancesca on October 7, 2008, at 8:07:42
In reply to Mutual attraction, posted by Suedehead on October 6, 2008, at 18:53:35
There are different schools of thought....I've been in love with my t for over 4 years; I told him about it years ago, because I felt he knew it anyway, and didn't want to feel like I was hiding something, etc...he handled it very gently and sensitively.
Unfortunately, over the past few years, we are in a personal relationship.....it is excruciating..
It would have been better on one hand, if he hadn't revealed that he had feelings for me...he said he is "torn and confused, scared and conflicted." Gee, how does that help ME?!
He also said: "If I were not married, I would probably go for it." This stuff "kills" me.
He said, "as long as we talk about it, it isn't dangerous." Oh, yes it is.
I could write a book about our relationship (no, there hasn't been any sex).....
Hugs, Sassy
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