Posted by Suedehead on October 7, 2008, at 18:59:01
In reply to Re: Mutual attraction, posted by Dinah on October 7, 2008, at 17:09:04
Hmm. You asked if I find that I link sexual attractiveness with feeling cared for or valuable, and if this is a problem in my life. I guess that the honest answer is that I don't know. I think that I'm severely lacking in self-awareness where sex is concerned. Well, lately, at least. This is something that we talk about quite a bit in therapy. I can see how my T's disclosure of his attraction to me could be beneficial in these circumstances, but I can also see how it could serve to kind of exacerbate the problem...I'll have to think about this some more.
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