Posted by JayJ on October 6, 2008, at 21:44:30
In reply to Mutual attraction, posted by Suedehead on October 6, 2008, at 18:53:35
Sounds pretty scary. I think it would make me very anxious. I would always be watching to see if this is the start of the "slippery slope". I would probably be over-interpreting his every word and action after that, at least for a long while. It would have to take a lot of good behaviour or a really good explanation of why he revealed that to make me at ease again. Of course, that's just me. Do be careful though, maybe he does have very good reasons and intent, but if there are any further slips in that direction, I would really be concerned. Unfortunately, this puts the burden on you, which is not where it should be. It can be so difficult when inevitably we get so emotionally tangled with our Ts. I hope everything goes for the best.
JayJ
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