Posted by Dinah on July 2, 2008, at 20:42:37
In reply to Has your T said the L word about you?, posted by lucie lu on July 2, 2008, at 19:14:44
Ya. Not for years and years. Then maybe once. And with all the disclaimers and qualifiers you would expect. And with the full knowledge that there was no chance I'd misinterpret his meaning.
He also *always* phrases it in terms of the time we've spent together and the hard work we've done. He never ever admits to feeling any special fondness because of who I am as a person. I told him if my ego were of the fragile sort, I'd be really insulted.
He also admits that I have the power to hurt him and that our sessions are important to him as well. Again with all the expected qualifiers and disclaimers, and making it all contingent on our time served.
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