Posted by Happyflower on July 2, 2008, at 19:43:21
In reply to Has your T said the L word about you?, posted by lucie lu on July 2, 2008, at 19:14:44
My has said it kind of. We talked about how he gives me unconditional positive regard with includes caring and loving feelings.(not romantic)
He hasn't said, I love you, but he did say he loved me in the way of the above sentence. My old T didn't say anything at all like this to me. But my current T has had over 40 years experience and he is comfortable in showing his caring in some situations. What is really cool about this is that I don't wonder if he cares or thinks of me, because he does, he has said so. So it isn't an issue for me. It is interesting on how that works. I think it is important to hear it.
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