Posted by rskontos on March 3, 2008, at 15:56:45
In reply to Check box 'all of the above', posted by Daisym on March 3, 2008, at 14:23:44
Daisym, I am sorry I guess I read it wrong. I took it literally. I realized that your dad was abusive to you and your sister. I realized that mom was in denial about both I guess I did not pick up on that mom still doesn't know about you. I guess for me having children I just don't get how she could not. Maybe it is because I was abused I am hyper-sensitive and always suspected everyone. I even checked on my DH to make sure. I needed that protection even though he never did anything to make me not trust him. So again, I think how the H*ll could she not know. I think on some level she knows and just wants to stick her head in the sand and make it go away.
I think you can try but it sure it hard. I can see your T's point and I know it sure ain't easy to do what he wants you to do. So be mad at everyone that let you down. You are entitled.
I wish too I could make it go away.
rsk
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