Posted by earthmama on March 3, 2008, at 6:38:04
In reply to MAD MAD MAD!, posted by Daisym on March 3, 2008, at 1:01:28
Oh, wow, Daisy. What a tough situation.
Before therapy, I never got angry. Now I'm learning to get angry at things that are probably appropriate, but it's all directed at my T and the therapy process. He is absolutely, 100% fine with that, he helps me work through it, and it is always, always a moment of growth.
You have an awesome T. He can handle your anger, and he can help you.
I'm so sorry you had that experience with your mom. It hurts so much when we imagine that even now, they might be able to apologize, hear us, take responsibility for their part...and then we realize that that can't happen. It just hurts.
Tell your T WHATEVER you need to tell him. He can handle it.
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