Posted by Daisym on October 15, 2007, at 14:51:55
In reply to Re: Pushing and Pulling again » DAisym, posted by annierose on October 12, 2007, at 14:12:09
***You may tell him shocking things, but is he expressing shock? No, he is concerned. He wanted to call you this weekend, right? You can't scare him away. He wants this relationship to work for you. He is not going anywhere.
He called yesterday morning to say, "I hope you are OK - I was thinking about you. Do you want to talk?" So we connected last night and talked for a little while. I told him I was surprised that he even wanted me back after the way I acted on Thursday. He said he expects that from time to time. It is so frustrating! He said more than ever he wants me to feel our connection and use it to help beat back the barrage of fears. I told him that I'd wanted to call but since I'd made such a big deal out of "no thank you" I felt I couldn't. He told me to never let that stand in my way. He did an imitation of me, "Hello - I've changed my mind, AGAIN!" - which made me laugh, but he was serious about not painting myself into a corner. He said he might not always know when he needs to go in after me so it is important to know that no matter what, I can still reach out.
He brought up some of the shocking things so I guess we aren't going to pretend I didn't say them. But he didn't push it on the phone, I think he was just letting me know that he remembers and is OK with stuff.
It helped to spend time with you yesterday - you said a lot of what he said. I hope the rest of your trip is fun and you remember to take good care of yourself.
Hugs,
Daisy
poster:Daisym
thread:788749
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20071009/msgs/789394.html