Posted by frida on April 8, 2007, at 19:11:22
In reply to Re: Whats the point..????? **possible trigger** » frida, posted by gazo on April 8, 2007, at 17:13:40
that's okay, I understand your feelings and your opinion, too...it's just a very delicate, sensitive topic..
and it is really, really hard for me to believe her and to feel worth enough..for her to care about me...that's why I try to hang on to her words even if I have trouble sometimes believing it or internalizing things.
It's just taken us years to get to a point where I can believe her when she says I love you very much, and it even hurts her feelings when I treat her as a stranger or don't honour the bond we've built. She'd tell me to think about everything we've been together and what she tells me and how she has given me so much of her soul in these 7 years.
maybe some bad T's who aren't committed to their work do harm, I am so sorry that you feel it's not real...
It's just hard to hear because some of us have spent years trying to believe it is real..and it's taken a lot of tears, pain, hard work on our part and our T's too...
that's why it's such a delicate issue.I've never trusted anyone as much as I trust my T, and she's helped me feel hope again when I had lost it completely.
it's a delicate issue...
thanks for your post,
Frida
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