Posted by sunnydays on April 8, 2007, at 16:39:38
In reply to Whats the point..???????????????????????????????, posted by Scentedgarden on April 8, 2007, at 13:51:23
That really hurts me to hear you see that. It is there job, but my T has reminded me many times that what we are doing is real, and our relationship is real. He tells me I haven't been filled up with good parenting in my life, and part of his helping me is to fill me up a little bit. How could he help me get some of that missing parenting if I didn't love him?
It is painful to me that it is only his job, but I also respect that a lot, maybe too much. He says that it's really great that I can say that I love him because it's a real feeling and before I would have just ignored it or not been able to say it.
It is a real relationship, even if it's his job.
sunnydays
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