Posted by sunnydays on April 8, 2007, at 9:55:34
In reply to All of you are brave about this, posted by 10derHeart on April 7, 2007, at 23:20:32
See, I worked up to it for months. I started out saying, sometimes I wish you were my father. Then I worked up to saying that I care about him. Then I finally said the "l-word". He admitted that when I first said it, he was "filled with warmth" but then he didn't know what to say because he didn't want to mess up anything between us. Finally, at the very end he decided to tell me he also had loving feelings, but he explained a whole lot that they weren't sexual, but not because he didn't think I was pretty, but that they were more fatherly or brotherly. He really was kind of cute because he felt like he had to explain it so much. So I would bet most T's wouldn't know what to say. But if you have a good one he'll find some way to respond appropriately. At first the only thing my T said was "Wow" though because it was totally unexpected, and then he said he was proud of me for saying that. The wow was really warm, it wasn't like I said anything wrong or anything.
sunnydays
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