Posted by allisonf on February 11, 2007, at 20:15:39
In reply to Re: Transference in real life » allisonf, posted by Dinah on February 9, 2007, at 10:47:04
Thanks for your message Dinah. I do agree with you that it is possible because of what happened in therapy, to catch the transference when it happens in real life and then deal with it better. But I am feeling this sense of frustration, b/c even tho I can acknowledge that I am doing in real life what I have worked on in therapy, I can't seem to get anywhere. I am still behaving in the same way that I did in therapy--googling and oogling my professor, the same way I did my therapist, and so many others. Is it that my therapy isn't as effective as it should be? I have talked to my therapist about my professor and we are working on changing some of my behaviors so that I don't go down that path too often (ie. stop googling the professor). I don't know.
Thanks again for your thoughts.
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