Posted by allisonf on February 6, 2007, at 7:55:36
In reply to Re: Transference in real life, posted by widget on February 6, 2007, at 7:43:08
I think I could be just friends with this person...I think that's probably all he wants to be. But it's hard after caring so much and being "obsessed" with someone to go back to just being normal friends. Perhaps after coffee, I will discover something about him that will distance me from him and it will be easier. But all the time I think about having him over with his wife and children...trying to be normal about the whole thing. My T is of the opinion I need to stay away from him.
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