Posted by muffled on October 17, 2006, at 15:15:04
In reply to Re: my T yelled and swore at me . tears, posted by kerria on October 17, 2006, at 12:21:18
> No my T doesn't care about me. i'm devastated. He knows how much he hurt me by saying what he did. i have no control over only being abble to have the car on M w and f. H is so angry that he gives it to me them also.
T knows that. He doesn't care about me. He could never yell and curse like that- he knows how hurt i am. he doesn't care.***Kerria, maybe there is more to this? Cuz I think your T's behavior is rather odd. Very unprofessional. Just plain awful. For one, he should never cuss you out, for another he should be able to offer you a regular time slot for appts. Have any of your other parts said something to him that you don't know about, and so there's more to it than meets the eye?
It all seems rather strange. Has he shown ANY caring EVER? Or maybe you have parts sabotaging you?
I hope you can find a better T.
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> Tears. i wish i never trusted him. only he knows my partsss. i'm too afraid to ever see him noww/***Can you send a fax or e-mail telling him how you feel?
Do you ever record your sessions so you can listen later and remmebr what was said?
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> It's so horrible. why can't i find a T who cares aabout me? How could this T do this to mee- over something so meaningless aas hhis schedule- he ruined my lifeee. i could never get another T and trust anyone . tears,
> i wish someone could help me. i'm too much a mess and there are too many hard things. tearsYou CAN get another T. It just may be hard. It also may not be. Easy for me to say with my good T........
But I got a good T, so maybe keep that in your mind.....that you want to search and search until you find a T, that mebbe will learn to understand you WITH you. Who can show empathy. Who will be kind, and build you up. Who accepts you no matter what.
There's just gotta be one out there.
I sure as hell don't desereve a good T that suits me well.
But I got one.....
Mebbe you can too.
In the meantime, take special care of you, ALL of you.
Muffled
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