Posted by Jost on October 17, 2006, at 15:11:07
In reply to Re: my T yelled and swore at me . tears, posted by kerria on October 17, 2006, at 12:21:18
Kerria, if that's true, than I feel terrible about it.
Madeline is right, that if he is uncaring, any sort of intentionally hurtful behavior is unacceptable.
Actually, not being caring is pretty unacceptable, IMO. You deserve a T who does care-- and who acts accordingly, and who is able to communicate to you--over time, because it doesn't happen right away-- esp. if you've been hurt a lot--that s/he is there and cares.
I'm sorry that your husband is unhelpful-- and hurtful --also.
Maybe if you told your T --that you expect him to treat you with consideration? even if he doesn't "care"-- that he has to be thoughtful, and careful-- not careless-- with you?
sorry, you're going through this now,
Jost
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