Re: I told my husband child abuse trigger » llrrrpp

Posted by Daisym on September 17, 2006, at 0:33:27

In reply to I told my husband **child abuse trigger**, posted by llrrrpp on September 16, 2006, at 22:33:44

You did a very hard thing. You are very brave. I'm so glad your husband was able to hold you and let you tell your story. I'm amazed and jealous and impressed.
You are right - things won't ever be the same again. They might be worse for a little while and then they will be better. You are cleaning a wound, getting rid of the poisen. It can be painful and lonely and confusing. I hope you can let your therapist help you.
Go slow. Don't force things. If you get too flooded you can really cause yourself to have a break down. It isn't uncommon for old, suicidal feelings to resurface and this can mess with your mind. So be good to yourself and try to take breaks from thinking about it.
I say all this from experience. I really do know how hard it is to give it a rest, or go slow. But it is better, really.
Take care,
Daisy

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