Posted by Tamar on June 16, 2006, at 18:48:27
In reply to Re: can professionals keep this a secret? » happyflower, posted by ElaineM on June 16, 2006, at 16:59:11
> Then when he offers me invitations or presents I feel 10% good and thankful, but 90% slutty.
There’s the problem. Right there.
Only you can know why you feel slutty. It’s your business and if you choose to share it here that’s up to you.
Nevertheless, I would bet my house that the reason you feel slutty is that same reason that he is pushing the boundaries. And if you have some kind of abuse in your history and he knows about it, then I want to go over there and slap his head. Because abusers always pick on vulnerable people. They know they can get away with it.
Don’t let him revictimise and retraumatise you. You deserve better.
(((((Elaine)))))
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