Posted by Dinah on June 12, 2006, at 17:21:41
In reply to Re: ((((((((((((Tamar))))))))))), posted by caraher on June 12, 2006, at 16:39:48
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> > This is going to sound kind of silly, because I know you're probably relieved. But I'm sorry nobody noticed your expression of pain. And I'm sorry your husband's reaction was so much like my husband's reaction.
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> I wouldn't assume nobody noticed it... all we really know is that nobody brought it up. That could be the result of nobody noticing. Or they might not know what to say. Or they might prefer not to make Tamar uncomfortable by "prying." Depending on how close she is to the people she works with not mentioning it might be a reasonably compassionate response.I know. I'm probably projecting more than a bit. It was very recent for me.
poster:Dinah
thread:655445
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