Posted by inimitable on June 8, 2006, at 21:51:13
In reply to Re: acting out big time (sex trigger), posted by inimitable on June 8, 2006, at 21:41:29
> hello! this was quite weird seeing your post so soon after my debaucle (is that how you spell it?) i posted above about sex after.......
> anyways i have never much liked sex either, not TOO painful, but yes,painful, also not very pleasurable. but i too have thought of being a promiscuous woman and how it's be interesting to think of, though i would NEVER. i've also been the good girl, not one to do outrageous things, but i did, as i explain in my post above. but no, you are not alone! it was quite nice to see someone post something similar to mine, to know that i'm not freaky either!
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> *inimitableP.S. -
i should have read the rest of the messages before i replied, it seems our situations are quite similar, i don't connect during sex either, it doesn't feel intimate at all, no pleasure, no connection. also, i don't much like touching either, i have never been a touchy feely person (my mother never did that sort of stuff) and my mother was very emotionally detatched, and negligent. she was not physically abusive (though step father harmed me twice) but i ended up SI'ing to cope with the emotional repression going on at my house.
anyways just wanted to say that, it's nice not to be alone.*inimitable
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