Posted by orchid on May 30, 2006, at 19:03:59
In reply to AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (***TRIGGER***), posted by Tamar on May 29, 2006, at 19:36:19
You are right to be angry. Anyone would be. And I can't believe your T would forget such an important date.
I am sure if I were in your position, my response would have been the same. There is no excuse for his behavior - none at all.
But maybe, for some men especially, dates aren't all that important. Maybe your T is of that type who doesn't remember people's birthdays anniversaries etc? The only reason I am saying this is, I don't want you to take his forgetfullness personally. I mean, don't take it out on yourself and start wondering about your worth etc. (I know I would), but really it isn't about you. Maybe he forgets dates all the time, and not just this once.
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