Posted by Poet on May 30, 2006, at 9:15:49
In reply to He definitely forgot, posted by Tamar on May 30, 2006, at 4:58:21
Hi Tamar,
I second your argh and send a cyber slap on the head to your therapist. Maybe that'll help him remember the important things.
I think it's good that he admited to forgetting, but also think he owes you a major apology. What would happen if you actually told him what you wrote: " Because if you're going to be allowed to forget that this is a professional relationship, then you can bl**dy well allow me to forget it for 45 minutes." I think he'd get the message that you're angry and hurt and how he contributed to those feelings by *forgetting.*
It's okay to be angry at your T, it's not okay to be angry at yourself because of it. Vent that anger here. Vent it at your T. Just don't hold it in and let it attack you. You don't deserve it.
Take care. Keep us posted.
Poet
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