Posted by caraher on May 30, 2006, at 11:03:37
In reply to He definitely forgot, posted by Tamar on May 30, 2006, at 4:58:21
I'd like to second a lot of what Larry said. My T pointed out that, although it's a very weird kind of relationship. But in any relationship, if you tell someone about a date of great importance to you, be it a birthday, aniversary, or the day you expect your new computer to arrive, and they flat-out forget anger is a pretty normal response. His being a T should make the forgetting particularly galling.
I'm especially glad you're angry because one depressed response would be to take that forgetting as evidence that you're somehow unimportant. Instead, you're saying you have a right to attention and care. That's a good thing!
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