Posted by Dinah on May 29, 2006, at 21:04:23
In reply to AAAARRRRGGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (***TRIGGER***), posted by Tamar on May 29, 2006, at 19:36:19
I understand why you're so angry. I think Annierose is right. I think sometimes they do wait for us to bring things up. I also think that unfortunately they're sometimes a bit too human and forget. Whichever this is, it is best to talk to him about it.
I'm certainly not above being angry with my therapist for forgetting things. But I also (usually) bring things up first so that I won't be hurt. :(
I think they can still help us, even with their flaws. I think the flaws hurt us a heck of a lot, and it ends up being another relationship we need therapy *for*, but hopefully they're willing to do that with us as well.
I'm so sorry you're hurting.
poster:Dinah
thread:650213
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