Posted by lostinfeelings on October 18, 2005, at 18:48:40
In reply to Re: help, posted by bird in the sky on October 17, 2005, at 23:34:04
The amazing thing is I did not have ot ask for a hug she gives it to me and it makes me feel better when i leave her office. I have never asked for a hug ever. there are times where i wished that she would hold me long enough for me to let all the pain and hurt out. I just told her this recently so hopefully she will aloow it. who knows.Bird sometimes when it comes to a hug maybe we need to learn to ask for it. it is no harm in asking for a hug. The worst thing that you could do is just do it without asking know what i mean> I know that therapist has to have boundries but hugging does not cause any harm
> You are sooo lucky to be able to hug her. Oh man,what i would give to hug my therapist. I think about it so much and yes i do love him. i have never even shook his hand. I want so much to hug him i cry for it. When i see other men hugging girls or women i get upset, jealous maybe. I always think about coaches hugging their atheletes they have trained. Remember in the olympics? If this is ok, why is it not ok for him to hug me? I believe it's ok. I think he is too hung up or scared of what i don't know. bird
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