Posted by lostinfeelings on October 19, 2005, at 17:29:58
In reply to Re: help » lostinfeelings, posted by Susan47 on October 17, 2005, at 21:50:45
>yes she is ok with it and i do not think that it is her intention of ever hurting me,she has already told me that she would not drop me because of my feelings for her.Because of my feelings for her it motivsates me to work on me because I fel like i am someone and she respects me like i respect her
Thank God your therapist is okay with the transference feelings. Keep a probe on how she's doing with that, as you don't want to be suddenly let go, dropped from her roster of clients, that can be terrible and terribly demeaning and hurtful. It got me completely stuck unable to move forward, for a long, long time. But then so did the inability to lavish my "love" on my therapist, it was a double-edged sword. It was horrible. I wish you all the best in your journey, and if the therapist becomes a hurtful burden, please don't hesitate to seek others. Because you can move forward without the dependency, honestly, and the pain. IMO.
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