Posted by Shortelise on October 5, 2005, at 10:58:59
In reply to Being in therapy is too much like being in love, posted by Dinah on October 5, 2005, at 6:50:13
I have had the same thought many times - it's like being in love without getting lai... er, without sex.
Dinah, oh, Dinah, you know the drill - ya gotta tell him, tell him you're feeling confused, getting mixed messages, write to him if you can't talk with him.
I don't think he's giving you messages, I think he's having a hard time. He's just not in his stride. Try to cut him some slack, I think.
You see, Dinah, you know what you know, right? You know he cares about you, wants to continue to be your T, wants the very best for you. You know he'll be honest with you always. You know those things. You can count on those things. Try not to let the sneaky doubting voice in. Trust in the relationship you have developed over the years, trust the T you know so well. And trust that, as you have done before, the two of you will work it through.
((Dinah))
ShortE
poster:Shortelise
thread:563100
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20051001/msgs/563156.html