Posted by Dinah on October 5, 2005, at 7:40:35
In reply to Re: Being in therapy is too much like being in love » Dinah, posted by Annierose on October 5, 2005, at 7:21:14
I guess I mean my initial email to him, which I considered to be just friendly and chatty sort of, not deep. But he read all sorts of things into it. I must have phrased it badly and missed my goal.
And I guess I mean my behavior on his telling me he was going away for a month, with the possibility of doing it three months a year. I told him that I once told him that I cared about him enough to want what's best for him, as long as it didn't mean leaving me. But that I was wrong, and I really cared about him enough to want what was best for him even if it meant leaving me.
But then later I was a bit b*tchy.
Yeah, I'm looking at the whole thing the same way you suggested. That I'll see him when I can, but that it's obviously best under the circumstances to make arrangements to protect myself and provide for my needs. I hope he can see it the same way. :(
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