Posted by fallsfall on October 5, 2005, at 7:16:30
In reply to Being in therapy is too much like being in love, posted by Dinah on October 5, 2005, at 6:50:13
It is like being in love. And it can be very painful.
I hope that you can view this as your therapist is willing to be available as much as is practical under the new logistics. It is sort of like the difference between "may I ..." and "can I ..." - but this is "he wants to ..." and "he can ...".
He does (and always will) care about you. Just like you do (and always will) care about him.
It is sad that "things" have happened to change your world and his. But is isn't just Katrina that happened. Things were changing before Katrina, too. She just accelerated the changes.
In my opinion, you are not "doing everything wrong". In my opinion, you are doing an outstanding job of dealing with this situation. The situation sucks - how you are handling it doesn't suck at all.
Wouldn't it be great if we could go through changes without them being painful??? I'm sorry that this hurts so much for you. I'm here to give you comfort whenever you need it.
Love,
Falls.
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