Posted by orchid on October 3, 2005, at 19:39:22
In reply to Next topic for therapy-My abusive life cycle, posted by happyflower on October 3, 2005, at 17:25:04
I don't know why I think this HF, but when you initially came here, you seemed very happy in your marriage. I wonder if a marriage of neary 10 - 11 years (if I remember it right) can deteriorate irrevocably within 6 months.
My thoughts are that, your husband possibly senses your interest and attachment to your T, and is holding back his affection or trying to find other avenues of attachment for himself.
I really do think it has lots to do with your involvement with your T.
It might be hard to acknowledge for you, but I think it is really really difficult for any woman to be fully open to two men at the same time. It is either or. I really do think if you need to save your marriage, you need to give up your therapy for a while atleast.
(I might be totally off base, and this may not be the advice you like, but I really think it is best for you if you put your stake in your marriage, and give all the emotional attention it needs rather than focussing your interest in your T).
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