Posted by Annierose on September 30, 2005, at 8:19:39
In reply to Re: Shame - trigger » fallsfall, posted by daisym on September 30, 2005, at 0:18:29
Maybe you waited for him to come back before you had your meltdown. You knew his support was an important component in order for you to get through it. Kindof like the preschooler holding it together throughout the day, and completing falling apart upon seeing mom (in a "now that you are here I know I can fall apart sort of way and you'll help me make everything better" ...).
Do you ever have the fantasy (and I use that word loosely) of just getting all this pain out there by meeting with your T all day for a few days in a row. Somehow I feel that help work through this really hard stuff. Instead of constantly having to pull ourselves together after an hour to be productive employees, mothers, wives, and friends.
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