Posted by daisym on September 29, 2005, at 23:50:42
In reply to Re: Shame - trigger » daisym, posted by fairywings on September 29, 2005, at 8:08:05
I had a session today and we talked a little bit about him being upset with me. He said he was mad about me being in danger when we have an agreement but he isn't mad that I feel this way. And he said he knows that the damn has to break before I usually tell him...he just wants to try to back track to the trigger and we can't if I let it get to far.
I'm leaning right now, believe me. I told him I wished I had another way to cope with these feelings and he said if this works we don't need to find another way right now. He promised again not to let go. (It is sort of a joke between us that he is holding the end of my rope so when I get there, he is already there. I gave him the end of a piece of rope with a knot in it about a year ago. I should ask him if he still has it.)
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