» sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet

Posted by 64bowtie on September 17, 2005, at 11:42:31

In reply to sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea?, posted by shrinking violet on September 13, 2005, at 13:27:27

SV,
A technique suggested around 12 step circles is to write the letter, pour your heart out, then just don't send it... Put it away for 90 days or 6 months... Take it out and look for relevance... None found??? Means you saved yourself some grief...
It's not perfect, but neither am I...
Rod

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sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? shrinking violet 9/13/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet jammerlich 9/13/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet messadivoce 9/13/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet orchid 9/14/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet Dinah 9/14/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet terrics 9/14/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » jammerlich shrinking violet 9/15/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » messadivoce shrinking violet 9/15/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » orchid shrinking violet 9/15/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » Dinah shrinking violet 9/15/05
Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » terrics shrinking violet 9/15/05
*writing* letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet Racer 9/15/05
Re: *writing* letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » Racer shrinking violet 9/16/05
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