Posted by fairywings on September 8, 2005, at 19:41:53
In reply to Re: Difficult Times » fairywings, posted by cricket on September 8, 2005, at 16:21:48
I wish you had my new T. We talked tonight about what I went through as a teen, and he shook his head about how it was no wonder I was so wary and couldn't trust, how I wanted to be anonymous and melt into the background because of the way I was treated by the authority figures in my past, people who I should've been able to trust. Gosh, I'm glad I switched T's. This guy is SO much better, I feel so safe with him, like I could tell him anything and it would be okay.
I just don't think it's alright for a T to be defensive and nasty to you like that. To let his issues become yours. If he's angry, or even if it's your perception that he's angry at you, then it's not helping cricket, esp if you feel like you have to disappear. He sounds mean to me!
(((hugs))))
fw
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