Posted by cricket on September 8, 2005, at 13:26:24
In reply to Re: Difficult Times » cricket, posted by Dinah on September 8, 2005, at 6:33:39
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> I'd probably comment on his reactions as they happened to helpe m understand what is going on. Including "You seem angry". It's hard but it's easier for me than wondering.Hey Dinah. I'm glad to see you posting. You're in my thoughts so much these days.
Wondering is certainly not easy. But what happens with me is that I tend to shut it away and forget about it, but then some residue still remains and next time he gets angry it triggers those shut off past times and every time it seems worse. So not good. I must practice saying, "Are you angry?"
Of course, he'll probably deny it, but at least if I say it, he's aware that he's affecting me and maybe that's part of what he wants. Who knows? He is so strange to me.
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