Posted by alexandra_k on September 7, 2005, at 19:33:13
In reply to Difficult Times, posted by cricket on September 7, 2005, at 13:11:36
hmm.
i'd give him your post.
i don't really know what to make of it...yeah it does sound like another bad day for him.
another thing you could do...
is comment on things at the time
(this can be really hard)but things like crossing his arms and turning away from you... when he does that i'd comment on that. 'i just noticed you crossed your arms and turned away from me - was it something i said? when you do that i feel like you are angry with me' (or whatever you feel in response)
i'd have commented on the phone calls too...
well... actually the truth is i would have sat there and taken it - like you did.
but... i probably would have commented / asked via email...
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