Posted by Dinah on August 25, 2005, at 9:26:48
In reply to Re: Yesterday a part came in therapy:( » Dinah, posted by kerria on August 25, 2005, at 0:54:47
I think it was probably because underneath all the annoyance at his flaws, there was a lot of appreciation for what he offered me. I liked him, and I started to express that genuine liking. I think he felt that and responded to it. And we began the long slow battle to understanding and mutual acceptance. Although in my eyes, I put in the lion's share of the effort, because I cared more.
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