Posted by pinkeye on August 3, 2005, at 16:50:19
In reply to Re: saw a new T today, posted by Jadah on August 3, 2005, at 16:44:40
I would definitely continue to keep seeing her.
You are not backstabbing - you are getting your needs met in some place in case he decides to leave you, and you are building a solid support structure for yourself. And I think it is best to keep it this way for now, and don't tell your T with whom you have affair that you have started seeing a new T. Because most likely, he will panic and will stop the affair and stop seeing you, and it would end up devastating you. But at the same time, I would make my new T promise me that she wouldn't report him or talk about the situation to other colleagues.
Even if she is not a great fit for you right now, I would still advice you to continue seeing her for sometime so you can build a support system other than your T.
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