Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2005, at 8:29:06
That an action on my therapists part that should make me feel more secure is actually awakening my abandonment fears. I know his actions make it clear that he won't abandon me completely unless he absolutely has to (gets divorced and moves or gets sick or something). But knowing that it was likely that he'd just tell me one day out of the blue that he could only see me once a week has made me want to pull back from him before he hurts me.
There's just no pleasing me. (I originally wrote "him" instead of "me". Wonder what that means.)
poster:Dinah
thread:515914
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