Posted by Aphrodite on June 20, 2005, at 13:31:48
In reply to Seems ironic, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2005, at 8:29:06
When I read about him looking for another job, my heart skipped a beat for you. I would have the same reaction you're having -- a desire to pull away and protect myself.
Have you asked him why he was looking for another job? Is he still looking? I would probably ask to be let in on what's going on instead of having a bombshell dropped like that. I freaked out about my situation causing a once a week phenomenon. Once a week now feels to me like no therapy at all.
Still, it's very kind that he thought of you and was going to arrange something to keep seeing you. You are special and important to him. I'm happy he is keeping your needs in mind.
I think you need to tell him about this insecurity. He always seems very forthright with you.
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