Posted by annierose on June 20, 2005, at 21:37:30
In reply to Re: Seems ironic, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2005, at 19:46:06
Dinah -
I would feel scared too. I think it is reasonable (of couse it is) and expected to have those feelings. If I went to therapy one day and she told me, "by the way, I applied for another job that fell through, but I would continue to see you for one day per week", I think I would feel crushed (on so many levels). Crushed isn't strong enough. Shocked. Betrayed.
I'm not sure why he shared that news with you. Are you glad you know that he has his ears open for another job?
I would want to crawl back into my shell where it was safe and cozy. I don't think it would help my therapy move forward. But then again, the discussion on why it is so upsetting would be fruitful and productive.
Is your T in private practice? Does he want to be associated with a larger clinic? I'm just curious. Looking for a teaching job?
This is big. Thinking of you.
Annierose
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