Posted by daisym on April 29, 2005, at 23:45:53
In reply to .....never known pain like this......(trigger?), posted by shrinking violet on April 29, 2005, at 18:56:59
I'm so sorry that you are suffering. It breaks my heart. I wish there was something someone could do. Please go to your last session, even if you know you will cry the whole time. It is OK to let it out.
This is one of those situations that is impossibly unfair and at this moment you just can't see how any good could come out of it. Everything looks dark and bleak. But...if you hold on, if you get through the next days, weeks and months, I bet you will find that the work you've done together has cemented a foundation for further growth. I bet you will hear her words in your head when situations arise that make you think of her. I bet you will find that this anguish gives way to tender grief.
You will always miss her. You will. All of this is totally unfair. But I don't think she would want you to do anything drastic. That isn't the way to honor the work you've done together.
I hope you find some peace this weekend. I'll be around. Post as much as you need to.
Hugs from me.
Daisy
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