Posted by Shortelise on February 2, 2005, at 15:18:07
In reply to My dad, posted by littleone on February 1, 2005, at 15:11:29
You could grow, learn to understand things about yourself, and where those things came from. I believe it's only when we are comfortable in our understanding of ourselves that we can start trying to understand others.
I see it sort of like trying to look through very dirty glass - it needs to be clean for me to see clearly. The crap on the glass is my crap, and once I get a few places cleared up, maybe I can see more clearly what is out there.
I think it's **unfair** to ask ourselves to have insight into the people who screwed us up until we've got ourselves in a better place.
You are doing really hard work right now so please be good to yourself. Be nice to You.
Hugs
ShortE
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