Posted by Aphrodite on January 11, 2005, at 18:19:13
In reply to Called T - VERY, VERY BAD, posted by Skittles on January 11, 2005, at 2:47:36
My goodness, Skittles, I would have felt the same way. I remember the sweating, debating, horrible feeling I had in deciding to call my T for the first time. If my T had such a reaction, I know I would have curled up in a ball and never returned. However, even in the midst of your panic, you seem to have a very rational take on what was going on on her end. I'm very impressed! I hope you can take that to her and tell her although you understand her position, your reaction was one of justifiable panic. Definitely tell her that you need to be able to speak honestly and openly about your thoughts without her overreacting and being alarmist. I really, really hope you can work through it. Tell her hard it was to call, that you didn't need her intervention, merely her comfort. I hope she will have settled down and be able to understand where you are coming from. Let us know what happens. I really hate that you had this experience.
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